- Body language and signs: how to understand that a guy likes you
- How to understand that guy likes you: basic tips
- Verbal signs that a guy really likes you
- How different signs of the Zodiac are hiding their feelings
- How else can he show his true feeling to a girl
- How men of different ages hide their feelings: a little psychology
Body language and signs: how to understand that a guy likes you
Not always people are frank and openly express the feelings. And strangely enough, good emotions show much harder than bad ones.
If a person is dissatisfied with something or someone, then, most likely, however much he restrains himself, it will soon be announced in one way or another in one way or another. And he is able to hide skillfully for a long time, and so that no one will guess his true feelings.
Especially this applies to lovers guys. Sometimes, feeling sympathy for the girl, they demonstrate the opposite attitude, trying to mislead her. To understand that you like the guy, you need to know the basic signs that indicate love. “Trying” them on a man, you can easily bring it to clean water.
How to understand that guy likes you: basic tips
If a guy stubbornly does not want to show his feelings and intentions, then he will have to be reserved for observation, analytic abilities and evaluate his behavior. Even the most cautious conspirators, as a rule, very quickly betray themselves, after all, having built a certain strategy of behavior, they send unconscious signals in parallel, which are worth paying attention to.
Even if a guy carefully conceals his feelings, it can still be calculated according to some characteristics.
Visual signs that a man likes you
Even without talking to a person, by his behavior, gestures and facial expressions, one can try to understand what feelings and emotions he is experiencing. All these are visual signs of sympathy, that is, those that you can see with your eyes.
A person who does not feel particularly keen feelings for the one who is nearby, looks at the interlocutor directly, but quietly, sometimes as he communicates, turning his eyes away. And those who have strong emotions, as a rule, can not maintain adequate visual contact. A guy who likes a girl either literally digs into her eyes, or, conversely, hides them.
Which of these options depends on his temperament, self-confidence and the reason why the feelings are carefully hidden from their object. For example, if a man is silent about sympathy because, despite his emotions, does not want to burden himself with relationships, then he will not hesitate to look at the girl. And if the reason for silence is self-doubt and the feeling that he is not good enough, you can often see the eyes that are set aside.
- The pupils.
One of the most uncontrollable reactions is the reaction of the pupils. They will certainly give out the slightest excitement experienced by man. Extended pupils clearly indicate that the guy is experiencing something.
The guy tries to invade the girl’s private space. The desire to be closer pushes him forward, and as a result, without realizing it, he comes almost right.
- Thumbs laid behind the strap.
Similar in meaning gesture – hands in pockets, and thumbs from the outside. So guys emphasize their masculinity. Although it is fair to say that even if no girls are around, such gestures can still be used, because you feel more courageous in the company of men, and even alone.
It is believed that people turn their toe socks and body towards the person who likes them. Therefore, if in a large company the body of a man seems to “look” at the same girl, then, undoubtedly, he likes it.
Unnecessarily frank look, which a man does not hesitate to throw on the chest and thighs of a woman, certainly speaks of his sympathy, but does not mean that there is anything more than the usual sexual interest in this. Therefore, psychologists advise to closely monitor the attitude of the man as a whole, and not to make hasty conclusions.
Verbal signs that a guy really likes you
The most convenient occasion for studying the behavior of a guy for sympathy is a conversation, during which you need to pay attention to some of the signs.
- Nervousness in speech.
It manifests itself in shy guys. When they see the object of adoration, they are lost, they forget that they have to speak, slow down or, conversely, accelerate speech.
- The timbre of the voice becomes lower than usual. This is an attempt to look more manly in the eyes of the girl.
- Boasting and bragging.
In attempts to cause admiration, the guys can spend hours talking about their existing and non-existent exploits. As a rule, in addition to this, one can observe a modestly lowered glance. Also practiced philosophical sayings, accompanied by heavy sighs, wise man’s life experience.
And, of course, this “prince on a white horse” will argue that if he has not achieved something in life, then only because he does not need it, because such a person as he is definitely above all this fuss of the material world .
- Clumsy attempts to find out information about the girl.
Asking directly about how she had her personal life – it would be too easy. It happens, of course, and such, but basically this question is asked as if by the way, without obvious interest.
Yes, it happens and such. It’s good that it does not happen very often. Complexed men (often quite young) in attempts to disguise feelings may fall into the other extreme. And then it’s just difficult for them to stop, they are in a confused state and do not know how to behave.
How different signs of the Zodiac are hiding their feelings
Man Aries will always be somewhere near, will always try to touch the object of feelings, to break personal space. This sign loves development, including when it comes to relationships. Therefore, it will not be long to walk around the bush. Or dare to talk frankly, or even switch to another girl.
Taurus becomes very attentive and courteous. He tries to help in everything, to show concern and in general to seem more kind than he is.
Gemini wants to immediately demonstrate all of its strengths, and sometimes it can be intrusive. Liked a woman prefers to lure with humor.
The Cancer man is perhaps the most secretive of all signs. It is difficult for him to understand what he is experiencing. Communicates with the object of sympathy calmly and restrainedly, and may completely avoid contact until he definitely decides that he needs a relationship with this girl.
A lion. That’s really who likes to demonstrate the strength and success of even more Gemini. The lion at once will tell in detail how good he is. He likes to impress gifts.
The Virgo guy is perfect in himself, so it is unlikely to understand what he feels until he himself decides to show it. But in general, his attitude will be underlined benevolent.
Scales always try to give the object of feelings as much time as possible. He talks a lot, jokes. At the same time it is unobtrusive. As a rule, natural indecision for a long time does not allow him to take any more specific actions.
Young Scorpio loves that girls themselves fall at his feet, so he often plays with them, approaching and moving away. At first he looks energetically for meetings, but during it demonstrates coldness or even disdain. She is jealous and resentful, including when the girl does not belong to him. Therefore, it is often irritated and can not always hide it.
Sagittarius has neither complexes nor the desire to think about the prospects for relations and build far-reaching plans. Therefore, he immediately begins to win the object of sympathy, while absolutely not hiding his intentions. Well, even if he does not talk about feelings for a while, everything is clear from his point of view.
Capricorn can for a long time hint to the chosen one on feelings in the hope that she herself will take the first step. This sign is very shy and afraid to show excessive emotionality.
Men-Aquarius, despite the fact that they give the impression of enough soft people, are firmly moving towards their goal. They do not hurry the events, but they systematically increase the number of meetings and the duration of communication, beginning to give the girl they like a very long time.
The Pisces boy is very caring, up to the point that he begins to control the girl he liked. He is interested in what she does, what she eats, how many hours she sleeps, etc. At the same time, he is very shy, therefore, in the presence of the object of sympathy, he can sometimes look confused.
How else can he show his true feeling to a girl
The behavior of a boyfriend in love can, in particular, depend on what kind of relationship is associated with the object of sympathy.
If you just communicate or are familiar only by correspondence
If the communication between a guy and a girl has just begun and has not yet developed into friendship, the young man in love will, of course, try to get as close as possible to the object of adoration, somehow “catch on”, find common interests and points of contact.
For example, if people communicate by correspondence, then he responds to the message immediately, as if specifically sitting and waiting until it comes. He asks questions, trying to make the conversation not over before the time, and when the correspondence is still interrupted, the next conversation begins first.
Although if the guy firmly decided not to show his feelings, then he can specifically pull with an answer to the messages sent to him, pretending that he does not expect them and generally thinks about something else. This is a favorite reception for girls, but it turns out that a strong sex uses the same methods.
If he is too shy
Shyness is not a very good quality, especially for a man. If he is, then it is not known when he will take the first step and show sympathy.
Most likely, this will not happen soon, because he is very afraid of being rejected. Shy guys tend to get very lost in the presence of a girl they like.
He can not be witty and charismatic, will not talk much about himself, extolling his qualities and achievements, and even to show initiative in communicating to him can be difficult. He often looks away and is afraid to touch the girl. Therefore, if she has an interest in this guy, it is better to start first with initiative. Only very carefully, because especially shy young people can easily be frightened off.
If you are not acquainted with him or is an unfamiliar guy
If the girl liked the guy, but she has never communicated with her, he will think about what would be the occasion to find for dating. Well, while he does it, he will probably try all the time to be somewhere near.
For example, to visit places where she often happens, to pass by work or a fitness room in which there is a girl. He will go to the same store, sign up for the same club, begin to walk the dog under her windows.
And of course, everything will be clear from his view. Although he may be looking at the girl so that she does not notice it. In the end, an unfamiliar young man still has to decide and come up, one can only hope that he will not come up with some sophisticated way for “casual” dating.
If it’s a friend
As you know, to translate relations from friendship into something more is very difficult. Psychologists argue that if people for a while communicate in a certain way, then it is difficult for them to get out of the role they have chosen for themselves in the relationship.
Other roles in dealing with a certain person start to seem to them inappropriate. Therefore, a friend who wants to become not just a friend, is particularly difficult. As a rule, he does not know what approach to find the girl, and if she makes any hints, she stubbornly does not want to understand them. So sooner or later he will have to say everything directly.
Until this happens, he will be very caring. Such a person is always ready to help, even sometimes to the detriment of one’s own interests. And the girls sometimes consult friends about the young people they like. Of course, a beloved friend will try with all his might to discourage his beloved from other men.
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If this is a former guy
With former guys, unlike friends, it’s very simple. They, as a rule, do not show any restraint, communicate calmly and allow themselves a lot of things. The whole problem is to talk frankly and suggest reconciliation. But this they can not go first, giving such a possibility to the girl. In any case, if the guy has firmly decided to part, then he will not provoke the former girl to communicate, but, on the contrary, avoid it in order to quickly normalize the situation and start a new life. If he continues to be near, then the gap has occurred due to misunderstanding, and the feelings are still there.
How men of different ages hide their feelings: a little psychology
It seems that with age people become more discreet, get rid of complexes and learn to talk about their feelings. But it only seems so. Regardless of age, a man can do his best to show indifference, while in fact a woman is not indifferent to him at all. And the reasons for this he even more than a young guy who, as a rule, is driven by either insecurity in himself, or unwillingness to be “pushed under the heel” and, as a consequence, mocked by friends.
A man who has reached the age of at least 30 – 40 years, can hide feelings for the following reasons:
- he thinks the girl is too frivolous and unsuitable for a relationship;
- he for some reason decided that she wanted to “sit on his neck” or somehow use it differently;
- he has a wife and a mistress, so that the poor man does not have time for women;
- he was generally fed up with women and he wants to rest;
- he understands that it is necessary to find a party more highly, in fact it is time not only about feelings, but also about the pressing to think.
In all these (and not only these) cases, he expects that all the emotions themselves will subside. But to behave while this continues very strange. Just like a young guy, he will try to appear better and more manly than he really is. I must say that the older the man, the more amusing it looks from the outside. All other verbal and non-verbal signs of sympathy may also be present.
Some men, like in their youth, may even begin to feel embarrassed when communicating.